At our congregation’s general meeting last November, we adopted the following Discipling Plan as our theme for 2018 and our strategic direction for the future:
Following Jesus and making disciples by connecting, growing, equipping and sending.
As we begin a new year of ministry and mission in Tea Tree Gully, I’m intending to listen to God’s Word through our Discipling Plan when I prepare my messages each week to learn what Jesus might be teaching us about connecting, growing, equipping and sending as his followers in the world.
This story from John 1:43-51 talks a lot about connecting with others in relationships. Jesus connects with Philip by calling him into a discipling relationship with him. Philip then uses an existing connection he has with Nathanael to tell him that he had found the person that Moses and the Old Testament prophets had promised, and that person was Jesus from Nazareth. Philip then invites Nathanael into a relationship with Jesus by asking him to come and see Jesus for himself. The surprise in the story is that, as Nathanael comes to Jesus, he states that he had already seen Nathanael under the fig tree, even before he came to him.
What stands out to me in this story is that Philip didn’t need to be trained or taught how to bring Nathanael to meet Jesus. Neither did he invite him to attend a program or an event, or ask him to join a roster or a committee. Philip didn’t even ask Nathanael to go to church. Philip’s invitation was simple and personal: come and see Jesus for yourself.
We need to hear this because sometimes it seems like the aim of many people in the church is often to try get people to come to church, and we think that once we’ve done that our work is done. We can assume that if people are coming to church regularly, or semi-regularly, or participating in the organization of the congregation by being on a roster or in a committee, then they are connected to Jesus. However, just because we come to church or are part of a church organization, it doesn’t mean that we know Jesus. Over my years of ministry, I have met people who have been very faithful in attending church or active in the organization of the congregation, but their words and actions have made me wonder whether they have actually met Jesus.
This becomes critical as we discuss ministry with our young people. At times I have conversations with parents whose children have disconnected from church and they ask me why their children don’t come to church anymore. Of course, this is a complicated questions and there are many, many reasons why people might stop attending worship. Over recent years, however, as I have reflected on my experiences in the church but also my own family, I have been wondering whether the main problem is that too many of our young people just haven’t met Jesus in our churches. We can be so immersed in the busyness and business of church that maybe our focus has drifted from Jesus and know him through faith.
Maybe we need to be asking more how we can follow Philip’s example by helping our young people and others meet Jesus.
This is largely what our Discipling Plan is about. It adopts a relational understanding of church and emphasises the importance of meeting Jesus and growing in our relationship with him through participation in our community of faith. Our Discipling Plan begins where Jesus begins: by connecting with him in a discipling relationship and connecting with others with Jesus at the centre of our relationships with each other, just like Philip and Nathanael.
When we see church as a community where we can meet Jesus and through which we can help others meet Jesus, a major shift happens in our thinking. We become more of the living, breathing body of Christ in the world where people encounter God’s love for them through our love for each other. When we are living Christ-like lives by preferring each other’s needs over our own, doing what’s good for others even if it comes at a personal cost to ourselves, and being willing to sacrifice for each other rather than just working for what benefits ourselves, then people meet Jesus in us. I regularly hear people in our congregation pray that the Holy Spirit would make us more and more like Jesus. This is a good and vital prayer because when the Spirit transforms us into the image of Christ, and this transformation is evident in our words and actions, in our relationships and how we treat each other, then people meet Jesus in us.
It is also important to see that at this stage of his journey as a follower of Jesus, Philip didn’t knock on someone’s door or approach a stranger to tell them about Jesus. Instead, he went to someone with whom he already had a relationship. In the same way, mission begins with the people we already know. God wants to work through the connections we already have to connect with others, including our families, friends, people we work with or with whom we spend our leisure time. When he met Jesus, Philip found us someone he had been waiting for. Then, he naturally wanted to share who he had found with someone he knew. When we find what our hearts are waiting for in Jesus, then inviting others to meet Jesus will be a natural thing to do.
So this story leaves me with two questions. The first is, how might our congregation be different if our main goal was to introduce people to Jesus? My personal hope and prayer is that by implementing our Discipling Plan, we might all meet Jesus as the real, living person that he is, that we might grow in our relationship with him, equipping us through the power of the Holy Spirit as he sends is into the world to participate in God’s mission of redeeming, restoring and renewing creation.
My second question is, where are you in this story? Do you identify with Philip as a follower of Jesus who has found in him what your heart has been waiting for? Then our Discipling Plan is about equipping you to invite others to meet Jesus. Or are you more like Nathanael, someone who is still waiting to meet Jesus? I hope and pray that through your connection with our congregation this year you might meet the crucified, risen and living Jesus, and grow in your relationship with him to find everything your heart is waiting for.
The good news is that whether you are more of a Philip or a Nathanael, Jesus already sees you, knows you, and is waiting for you.
More to think about:
- Do you like meeting new people? Can you explain why you like or dislike it?
- Why do you think Philip was so quick to tell Nathanael about meeting Jesus? What does that tell us about what meeting Jesus can do for us?
- Do you feel like you have met Jesus in Christian community? What has helped you meet Jesus or has got in the way of you meeting Jesus?
- Do you agree that we can help people meet Jesus when we love them in the same way that he loves us? Who could you introduce to Jesus today by loving them like Jesus loves you?
- How might your Christian community or church be different if your main goal was to help people meet Jesus and grow in their relationship with him?